
Life is crazy sometimes. Unexpected things happen. Good things. Bad things. Sometimes these unexpected events are loners, they just happen in life all by themselves. Those are generally of only passing interest. Like “oh, that was nice.” or “remember that bad week back in 05″.
But sometimes they come in packs. If it’s a pack of good things we call it “good times” or “a great year”. If it’s a pack of bad things it’s like an evil horde out to devastate us! We get all bent out of shape then. It’s like “COME ON! what else is going to go wrong?” It can be a little bit disconcerting, if you know what I mean.
Two Questions
Is it really bad? – As a Christian, I have to ask myself this. It’s not really at all easy for me to just call something that happens “bad”. The reason is that my Bible says that “all things” work together for the good of those who love the Lord (our house) and are called according to His purpose…which we most certainly are.
So is it truly bad? Can I say yes and say I believe my Bible at the same time?
Where is my focus? – When I’m in a “and the hits just keep on coming!” kind of whiny mood, where is my focus? Not trying to be preachy here, just explaining how my mind works. My next thought is another Bible verse…”focus NOT on that which is seen, focus on that which is unseen…”. The Word is saying that I should focus on eternal things.
But even in this life we tend to focus on one thing at a time and not see the big picture. What ELSE is God doing in the midst of all that is going on? What other things are happening that are great? What about the really big things like family, and health, and a safe environment?
So, it’s hard to be too upset about those so-called “bad things” in light of what we know is good.
Take A Walk
I don’t think I’ve ever had a hard time learning from God when I try. It’s as easy as walking outside. Romans says that everything about the Creator can be learned by looking at what He created. The world is just a huge book pointing us to God and his ways. A walk outside with a prayerful heart will always result in a lesson.
Yesterday morning I was walking and not really thinking too hard. I was just walking along and enjoying the morning and thinking what a lucky dog I was to be living in such an amazing and wonderful part of the world. As I breezed by some trees on the side of the sidewalk, one of them caught my eye… actually there was two.
A Cabbage Palm, and a Strangler Fig

Despite the unbecoming name, a Strangler Fig is an amazingly beautiful tree. Similar to a Banyan in appearance, these trees can develop over years into magnificent and sprawling structures that just totally bring out the kid in me. I just want to climb it, and sit under it, and go inside every little hidden cave of it’s root structure.
The Cabbage Palm on the other hand is a bit more ho-hum in my opinion, but a nice tree in its own right. What happens when the two meet is an amazing example of how life works sometimes. The Strangler Fig starts growing on the palm, not in the dirt mind you, but up higher on the trunk. It then starts to send roots down the tree into the ground, eventually wrapping all the way around the trunk.
The process takes years and while it happens you see both trees. But eventually you don’t see the Cabbage Palm anymore. At first it is covered up and invisible, then eventually it just dies away and all that is left is an amazing and beautiful tree that is much more magnificent than the palm ever could have been.
It’s not that the palm wasn’t pretty or nice. God made it beautiful. It’s just that the palm wasn’t the “finished design” that God had for that little piece of Earth. It was a stepping stone, but not the final outcome. He had bigger plans.
I think life is very much like this sometimes. Sometimes things we thought we liked, things we thought were “fine” have to pass away in order for the new thing that God has in store for us to come to pass. Sometimes they are stepping stones, building blocks, but not the finished product.
So I encourage you to remember that He works tirelessly and constantly for your future and that we can have faith that things that seem bad are just building blocks. One day, sooner or later, we’ll be able to see how they were used for our good.










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What a humbling, convicting, and yet encouraging post, Kim! I have been learning a lot about these very things lately. Having a pastor for a husband seems to provide plenty of opportunities for learning tough lessons! I am learning to be thankful tho’ and not have a “woe is me” attitude. It doesn’t always come naturally or easily, but when I do determine to obey the Lord with a right attitude, I am always blessed in the long run. =)
Thank you for sharing. I often focus on what I’m going through or why it doesn’t make sense and forget that what I’m facing isn’t a surprise to God – He knows it and He’s with me, and He’s bringing me through to a future only He can imagine.
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Kim – that was beautiful and so timely. I put a lot of time into thinking of those “building blocks” this past week since I shared some similar things on Mother’s day, and just posted it on my blog. Thanks for the wonderful reminder and confirmation.
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Tim…….this is so important for us as Christians to grasp!
James 1:2-4 says “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish it’s work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” (NIV)
If we choose to see all our circumstances with Kingdom eyes then the “bad” and the “good” alike can be building blocks to becoming more like Christ:)
I’ve stumbled more than I care to admit but the joy comes in knowing that my Jesus is so much bigger than any circumstance and He truly is enough!
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Oh my….
My cup runneth over! Beautiful!!
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You have given us plenty to think about with this post. And I certainly do agree with all of your thoughts.
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What and insightful post. Thanks for sharing.
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Wise words, full of insight…thanks for the encouragement! God is indeed in control of it all, behind the scenes weaving something beautiful that is beyond what we can imagine yet on the surface!
blessings!
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Such a great post and so true! When I look back over my life, it really is the hardest things that grew me the closest to God! Praise God for the many unique ways He reveals himself to us!
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This is so good.
WOW !! I can’t decide who wrote this !!! Kim or Tim LOVE you both !!